Dating an emotionally guarded men
The typical ghoster suddenly disappears from your life/text/dating app exchanges for no apparent reason, leaving you clueless as to what went wrong.You’re left desperately scouring your past interactions for clarity (or sign that he does care about you really! This one’s particularly interesting: you can see he still watches all your Instagram stories, but makes absolutely no effort to interact or engage with you.
When their first choice is unavailable (or not that into them), they’ll randomly get in contact with you for an ego boost or to make the true object of their affection jealous.Generalised responses such as, ‘I’m really busy right now, but drinks soon?’ are a sure sign he’s trying to let you down gently, without hurting your feelings.[Read: How to win a girl’s heart and impress her effortlessly] What you have to do is prove to her you are worth her being vulnerable.That means no matter if she lets the crazy out of the closet, tells you to go when she really wants you to stay, or pushes you away, you hold her tight.