Im dating jewish guy
Running away from or avoiding problems is one of the most childish things a guy can do.
A man deals with shit, even if it means getting punched in the face by some douche at the bar or getting screamed at by your girlfriend.
When you ask a guy where he wants to go for dinner and he says something like, “I don’t care,” or “Wherever you want,” it’s usually true.
But the difference between a man and a boy is that the man knows you hate that kind of shit and makes a suggestion anyway.
If this guy is rude to waiters or won’t play nice with your friends, he’s either playing the bad boy or he really is one.
Let him know you’re more than a maid he gets to bang.Instead of being upfront and honest with you when you’ve pissed him off or hurt his feelings, he just shuts down or finds subtle ways to make your life difficult. If this guy intentionally does the opposite of what’s expected from him just for the sake of being contrarian, that’s a sign of insecurity, immaturity or douche-baggery.Speaking of confidence, a grown-up man isn’t afraid to go after what he wants.If he acts surprised when the day arrives, this is a sign that he doesn’t respect you, which is a major symptom of immaturity.I’m not saying he has to have his whole career planned out, but if he blows off work when he doesn’t feel like going, quits or gets fired because he’s too lazy or the job is too boring, this guy still doesn’t know life isn’t always about doing whatever he wants to do all the time. A man doesn’t worry about who’s at fault — it doesn’t matter.