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', and [I said] 'Yeah, I'm fine,' and he said, 'It's just weird' and I said, 'It doesn't have to be weird, it's cool.' He said, 'Just with everything that's happening.

It's happening so quickly.' He was speaking to the fame and stuff and I just responded with, 'Oh, OK,' and he just walked away.

I spent too much time blindly follow good-intentioned advice and not thinking for myself early on when dating online.

So better to listen to your gut and break any “rules” (such as keeping the email short) when you think it would work to your favor.

It is also worth noting that most often discuss this from the point of view of a man contacting a woman, since that was my experience, but my hope is that the thoughts here are helpful to anyone.

With online dating, the first message can make or break your chances of a successful first date.

For example, in the Profile 3, creating an invitation to have a drink that looked like a travel itinerary might work well if she had mentioned enjoying creativity or if her profile was very creative.

Sometimes we can get so caught up in following “rules” that our online dating first messages don’t end up reflecting us very well and…

): Response 3: For all these examples, I’ve intentionally chosen profiles that were very short to keep the examples to a reasonable size.

Most profiles should have much more information for you to work with but you can apply the exact same ideas: Also, regardless what any book or person tells you (including this guy), you need to be making decisions for yourself.

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