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The very nature of speed dating means you have a captive audience.
A member of the opposite sex has to talk to you for at least four minutes, and so this encourages the most nervous types of daters.
Ice-breakers are useful, but you want to be sideways on and doing something which you can chat about, not forced to sit face to face in clinical booths, literally judging each other on a slip of paper. If you have a certain ‘type’, then look at your friends, and find the friend who most resembles that type of person. Yes, speed dating can work – but only if you’re the type of person who NEEDS a bell and a tick sheet to talk to a stranger for 4 minutes (but won’t get intimidated by the situation).
Whenever singles ask me which dating sites to use, I always say you need to think about the men or women you’re attracted to. Which sites attract the most people you’re attracted to? If you’re not that kind of person, or not attracted to that kind of person, then don’t bother with speed dating, because you’ll only be disappointed.
Please email us at [email protected] any questions/concerns, or visit us at con during our operating hours!Guys are the hardest ones to attract, and confident, attractive guys are the hardest to attract, because normally those guys can walk into bars any night of the week and chat to women.The key to a good singles event is organising something which men WANT to go to.People who wouldn’t normally approach the opposite sex in the real world. But the problem with speed dating, is that often the women who are attracted to speed dating events are VERY different to the men.In general, women will turn up in groups, and be more relaxed and confident about the affair.